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8 Things Men Should Do After A Breakup

July 2, 2020 by kevinwilkerson Leave a Comment

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Yesterday you were together and today you have become almost strangers. Romantic relationships often turn out to be so unsteady that they fail at the most unexpected moment. A breakup is difficult not only for women but also for men. It turns out to be even more difficult for them since men don’t show emotions openly. Moreover, men also need support and advice on how to forget girls whom they loved with all his heart.

1. Take it for granted

If a girl leaves you, you should accept it. Any attempts to return her will only aggravate the situation. Put an end to the relationship. You should stop any attempts to get her back. This is one of the conditions for successfully breaking up. All these things will not bring back love, and you will only lose respect in her eyes.

2. Dedicate more time for sports

Maybe dating mature women, you didn’t do what you like. For example, did you want to be engaged in some sport? Now you can do whatever you want. Sports activity is a good way to get rid of negative thoughts and heavy feelings. Therefore, go to the gym, start running or do anything else. Open up new types of sports for yourself. They will give you motivation for action and life in general.

3. Completely part with the past

All items that once belonged to an ex-girlfriend must be thrown away. General cleaning should be done so that even the smell of her perfume is not left in the house. It is better to change the phone number or at least add her contact to the blacklist. Block her on all social networks. This must be done regardless of the reasons for the breakup.

4. Strengthen willpower

Self-hypnosis is a good way for those who don’t know how to forget their beloved woman. Psychologists recommend imagining yourself locked in a dark room with chains on your legs and arms. These fetters symbolize the unremitting love for the ex and all the thoughts of a man about her. You need to get rid of it.

5. Don’t think about her

If you continue to talk about your ex and think that you still love, you will never forget her. You need to be careful about your thoughts and feelings. Any person can completely control their thoughts and emotions. We can try to feel emotions that are necessary for us and remove unnecessary emotions from our life. Start telling yourself that you no longer love this woman, that she is no longer important to you. Tell yourself that she has another man, and she is well with him, and you are ready for a new relationship and a new life.

6. Do good things

Carrying the positive is the best cure for low self-esteem, love addiction, isolation, and selfishness. The main thing is that a good deed should be sincere. Don’t turn it into an attempt to “buy” indulgence. Having tuned in this way, it will be easier for you to decide how to forget the woman you still love very much.

7. Make new friends

To find a way to quickly forget an ex-girlfriend, don’t forget about other ladies. Perhaps one of them will help overcome a breakup. You need to communicate, date and flirt. Of course, at first, it will be difficult but over time, you will be able to escape from thoughts about his ex-girlfriend. Besides, you may find real love. 

8. Change something in life

You can find a new job (preferably a more creative one that distracts from sad thoughts), which means meeting with people so that your circle of communication changes. Or move to another city, and every restaurant, traffic light, and a bench in the park will not remind you of bright days with your ex. Get a dog, buy or rent a new apartment, change the car… Let this painful breakup motivate you to change your life and become better. 

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