5 Top Criteria For Being An Awesome Female Wing Person For You Single Guy Friends
Not all wingmen are men. Some of the best are women and here’s five ways a girl can be a good wingman for their single guy friends.
1.) You Both Must Be Friends With No Romantic Interest In Each Other
There’s no way a girl can be a good wingman if either of you has any romantic interest in each other. Sure, Billy Crystal’s character in When Harry Met Sally said that men can’t be good friends with women because they want to have sex them and while that’s kind of true in a way it’s hardly practical. And to be a wingman there has to be clearly no sexual desire between the two of you.
That way, they girl can provide the best assistance because she’s not holding back and has your best interest in mind. Couples who have dated can be wingmen but it has to be a special relationship. So stick to a special friend, only.
2.) The Female Wingman Must Be Honest But Not Insulting
Guys generally like to pick girls “out of their league” while the female wingman will settle upon a more obtainable target. “But I like THAT girl,” the guy protests. Rather than pointing out that his target is out of his league or being insulting, suggest that as a friend you know his type and what type of girl is attracted to him.
3.) Be Supportive If – Or When! – He Gets Shot Down By A Girl
Guys are quick to rebound from rejection (all it takes sometime is to spot another girl) but that doesn’t mean we don’t need to be picked up from time to time. We often relate these things to sports so it’s like when we walk back to the dugout after whiffing with the bases loaded, we like our coach to give us some encouraging words. Kind of like, “you’ll get ’em next time, Tiger!”
4.) The Female Wingman Needs Is Best If She’s A Good-Looking Girl
One of the key elements to having a successful female wingman is having a girl with you in the bar. This is because girls look at other girls. And the better looking your female wingman, the more girls are going to look at you and the better chance you are going to have at meeting other women. This is just a fact of life.
5.) The Female Wingman Needs To Have A Good Gift Of Gab
In addition to good looks, the best female wingman also have a good gift of gab. They can go up to a girl or group of girls and start talking and get them laughing, then pull you into the conversation to make the introduction. Of course, the guy needs to be a gifted conversationalist, as well.