How To Impress A Girl On The Date

Don’t Be In A Rush But To Be A Gentleman

There are so many tips and recommendations on how to turn the first date into successful and impressive that most men really get lost and depressed, understanding they just will not pay for a limousine and a 100 red roses.

Honestly.

On the other hand, if you really liked the girl, make sure you understand why do you want to impress her. Do you want a more or less lengthy relationship with her, or do you want just an affair? There is no correct answer, both options are good as long as both of you are okay with the same option.

If you want just a short affair, make beautiful gestures like 100 roses or something like that. Take her to a cool bar or club, dance together, pay her compliments, and generally, you are done. However, if you plan dating hot Russian women or any other type of women longer than a week than you definitely need a different strategy.

One of the first rules is to mind what you do. You may state you are confident in yourself, but act shy and clumsy. You may state you like the girl and are interested in her, but text and talk on the phone during the date. You may tell her she is beautiful, but watch other women passing by you. So, make sure what you tell and what you do coincide.

Next, if you want to create an impression of a serious guy, do not rush to buy her 100 roses. Be a gentleman, do all this classic stuff like flowers, restaurant, opening doors for her, but avoid those overly romantic and posh gestures like ordering a Mexican band to play next to your table. This will make her uncomfortable, and she will probably think you can only make those cheap monkey courtship by demonstrating you are rich and cool.

Instead, talk to the girl and listen to her. Show you are attentive to what she tells you and ask her more about herself. You may think that the correct strategy is to go balls to the wall about how cool you are and what are all your cool features, but in reality, it is quite the opposite. Stimulate her to tell you more about herself, and stay a bit reserved about your own things until she asks. By doing so, you will reach two goals at the same time. First, it is easy to find out more about the girl, and decide whether she is still attractive enough. Second, it is easy to find out if she actually likes you and wants to know you better, or she just collects dates and wants to show off to you.

If a successful date means sex on the first date, then you do not need to put a lot of efforts into relationship development. But if you want more than that, do not try to drag her in your bed after the first date, even if she seemingly does not mind. This will give you an advantage among all the other men.