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Why Hanging Out With Gay Men Can Be Better Than Straight Guys

June 30, 2017 by kevinwilkerson 2 Comments

Hitting On Girls Not An Issue And Puts This Blogger At Ease In A Bar

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PubClub.com’s blogger (with lei) finds he’s more at east around women when he’s hanging with gay men.

By Kevin Wilkerson, PubClub.com Nightlife Blogger

Here’s something that never really occurred to me but makes perfect sense.

Hanging out with gay men can be better than hanging out with straight guys.

This was brought to my attention when I was at an event at a Hollywood nightclub. I was very interested in a particular girl that was in our rather large (20 or so) group. About half a dozen of us wound up in a kind of quiet corner and while I was being wooed by the distributor of some excellent wines that had been provided for the event, a few guys were around the girl.

Normally, I would have one eye on the guys in this type of situation, ready to leap in to keep my face in the game because they guys would be hitting on her with relentless abandon. This girl, by the way, was just my type: gorgeous long blonde hair, soft to the touch and she was wearing a black dress with a long cut up the leg and a cut down the chest.

Furthermore, as somewhat of a bonus, she’s almost the female version of me. She’s lively, fun, full of energy and loves – absolutely loves – rum.

But instead of worrying about other guys hitting on her, I was calm. Relaxed. While the guy told me all about his excellent wines – Vie Vite, and the bottle he brought was about the size of a Tesla – I was able to focus on him and, of course, drink more excellent wine.

That’s because I knew no matter how much conversation and laughing I heard behind me, I knew the guys had no interest in hitting on the girl. I could go about my business and not worry that I was being out-flanked by a slick-talking dude.

When I rejoined the conversation, I went back to the girl and I had lost no ground with her. When this moment of realization hit me, I leaned my head back, produced a big smile and let out a sigh of relief.

Then, of course, I had another drink of wine. All I had to worry about now was not screwing things up myself! And that, of course, is another challenge but at least it’s all on me.

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  1. Adam Tran says

    August 14, 2018 at 5:40 pm

    Gay men and trans are some of the best wingman you will ever find! Girls don’t want to talk about sports, they want to talk about style and fashion! Let your LGBT friend do all the hard work and you can reap the rewards!

    Reply
    • kevinwilkerson says

      August 14, 2018 at 5:43 pm

      Haha! Thanks for the comment. Cheers Adam.

      Reply

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